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Simon was around two and a half when he first felt my hand across his bottom. My wife Polly and I had agreed prior to his birth (with that characteristic naive optimism of first-time parents) that spanking was old-fashioned and unnecessary; in fact, frankly, we felt that it was cruel and barbaric.
This thread stirred up a few memories, and I've just fished out my old copy of 'Stories For Bedtime' to confirm them! Two examples here. Firstly there's 'Simon's Clean Handkerchief' where a boy through forgetfulness, carelessness or just misfortune fails to bring a clean handkerchief to school each day, much to the increasing annoyance of his teacher. At one point she threatens to spank him the next day if he doesn't bring one. So he actually turns a hankerchief into a cap, wears it on his head, but forgets it's on there. When he can't find his handkerchief the next day, the teacher says "Take off your cap and come indoors and be spanked!" When he does take it off, realises it's his handkerchief and points it out to her, she says "Well, if you aren't just the silliest little boy! You've only just saved yourself a spanking!" Karen was on her tummy. She was sniffing now, not crying, and trying to understand the lovely feeling she has in her most intimate area, as she gently pushes up and down on the bed, her bright red bobbing up and down, which she can see, in the mirror, if she looks over. Which of course she does…One patient of mine was very young when her father spanked her for something he believed she had done wrong. Her dad reacted very angrily, and spanked her hard on her bare bottom causing a lot of shame, rather than holding on to the shame it’s common for people to later in life turn the traumatic experience into a sexual one to help cope with what they have experienced, leading to a strong emotional connection between spanning and sex, which now manifests as a spanning desire or fetish. Boy, was I wrong! The demise of her spanking brush seemed to anger Mother even further, and reaching down, she removed the hard-soled sandal from her right foot. Then she proceeded to thrash me into the next week. I had four bare bottom spankings (two in front of other children, one in private and one in front of my class) when I was in junior school (7 - 11 yrs old). In addition, I remember having three bare bottom canings (two in private and one in front of a class - but not my class). I also had numerous spanking with trousers down. And .... To think that I was generally a good lad.
I remember it was a lady inspector – she had children of her own and when I explained that I normally just used my hand as it was less severe than the cane, she nodded and agreed with me. In primary schools, things were a lot more ‘homely’, really.
When the spanking finally ended, she pushed me off her lap, informed me I was grounded and told me to get to bed. I had never been so relieved in all my life for a spanking to end. However, the shame was just as bad. I was a very sore and humbled boy and you won’t be surprised to hear that I slept on my stomach that night. By now really embarrassed, I went a bit further up the garden so I couldn’t hear the rest of the conversation, but then my mother shouted at me: “Simon! Come here!” The pain did not leave, it was still growing. Even in the dark of night she could feel the heat on her hand. And lying on her tummy, stroking her poor bottom, she fell asleep. Yes. In the 60's, I received spankings in different ways (and so did many other kids - boys and girls). Most spankings were across underpants, with trousers pulled down - usually in private. But, frequently these 'low level' punishments were carried out in front of the class. I had many such spankings and quite a few were for trivial reasons - but were also in front of the class. A. let other drivers' mistakes provoke you into becoming hostile. B. let go of your emotional feelings before you start driving. C. stop driving just because you are angry or upset about something?
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